What happens when we die? What happens when we love others more than we love ourselves?

You can either take control of your life or watch how life will take control of you. One of the worst things someone can do is lose yourself, helping another person - whether it be your wife, husband, father, mother, brother, sisters, or even friends. Life is about choices - good or bad. We all make them, and we have to deal with the consequences. 

We sometimes forget just how sweet the older generations are. Luck has a lot to do with it. Being blessed with good genetics, not succumbing to any debilitating diseases, having a relatively peaceful life, and of course, a positive mental attitude. You can learn a lot from older people, who are filled with a lifetime of experience. Another reason to value the elderly, which sadly we fail at in the west to a large extent. Most people have the talent and don't know what to do with that talent it. Instead of going after it and make growth with it, they waste their talents.

Many people can be famous, but they choose what they think are only choices in life with a closed mind, instead of exploring more. Most people never discover their talents. Change requires change. 

Figure out what you want to do and start doing, stop doubting yourself, stop dreaming, quit contemplating, stop waiting around for a miracle, and start moving toward your goals.