What if one habit was causing all your relationship problems?

Do you feel unlucky in love? Depressed or frustrated with your relationships or dating life? Have you ever thought, "I must be cursed?" Author Jess McCann spent a decade investigating why so many smart, attractive people suffer repeating, negative outcomes in their love lives—whether that means constantly getting ghosted, attracting the same noncommittal partner, or repeatedly fighting with a spouse. What she found was the startling revelation that men and women who struggle to develop or maintain happy relationships all have one thing in common. They're unknowingly stuck in a habit of self-focused, binge thinking.

In a time where people are advised to concentrate more on themselves in order to gain happiness and love, McCann astutely lays out a different and more sustainable path to those goals. If Love Is A Blessing, Why Do I Feel Cursed? shines a light on the five primary binge-thinking habits that sabotage true connection with others and the practices needed to rid and reframe them.

In this book, you'll learn if you have one (or all) of the following:

• A Worrier/ Lamenter Mind
• A Wanter Mind
• An Inferior Mind
• A Superior Mind
• A Contestant Mind

McCann openly shares her own journey along with compelling examples from her coaching practice, making this a quick and easy read. You'll learn how various styles of binge thinking distort reality, cause miscommunication, and create repeating patterns. Once you identify your own specific mind habits, McCann provides you with concrete steps to help create new ones, transforming everything about your love life in the process. Is self-love or positivity the missing component? The answer may surprise you....

If Love Is A Blessing, Why Do I Feel Cursed? is an updated, second edition of, "Cursed?" 

From the Author

I used to feel "cursed" when it came to relationships. Throughout college, I had the curse of pining after men who never liked me back, and only attracting those who I had no interest in. Then, as you might have heard in my first book, You Lost Him at Hello, I learned some very effective techniques that changed that. However, another "curse" descended upon me. I would meet someone and be very excited at first, but once the person expressed their desire for a relationship, I quickly got bored and moved on. It seemed like the universe was playing a cruel joke! Finally, I met my darling husband who was everything I said I wanted. Ah, the curse was broken! But wait, it wasn't! Right after we got married, we fell into a pattern of arguing about the same things over and over again. Our first year of marriage was tough, and I could not figure out why love was so darn complicated for me.

Then, in 2011, I had a huge awakening, and the reason for feeling "cursed" was revealed. No surprise--it was all something I was doing. I had a bad habit that I was unaware of. Yes, one single habit was creating all these different, negative patterns. I looked at the clients I was coaching and many of them had the habit, too. It's so insidious that most people miss seeing it, however, once it's pointed out, it's as visible as the nose on your face.

It took ten years to write, but all my research, coaching experience, and personal story are now available for you to listen to so that you can break your unwanted, repeating patterns as well.