This book contains adult language and adult themes.

The purpose of the book is to increase the wife’s sexual stimulation. Around 50 is the age when men begin obtaining either testosterone replacement or trying erectile dysfunction drugs. Over the next 20 years many others will try them. In all the motivation is dissatisfaction with sex. Usually it is the husband who is unhappy with his erections, which means he is unhappy with his orgasms. Around this time the wife is usually undergoing hormonal changes which can also cause various disruptions in the couple's sex life.

The most rapidly growing category of divorce are those marriages in which the couple is older and the marriage has lasted several years.

If the husband tries pharmaceuticals, you now have a partner who now can get better erections, better stimulation, and better orgasms. If he added testosterone, now he has increased his libido, increased frequency of sexual fantasies, and makes him more aggressive sexually. The wife feels the same as she did before all of this started. There is now a disruption of their former relationship involving sex.

I wish to prevent fornication, adultery, and divorce in these couples. There are several reasons mature couples may divorce, but sex is becoming the primary one.

This book is addressed to couples who have been married several years and are now undergoing a change in their lives. We can either give pharmaceuticals to the wife, or increase the wife’s libido by enhancing her sexual experience and the intensity of stimulation, and/or the quality or quantity of her climax/orgasm.

The man wants more sex secondary to drugs. It is certainly possible to give the woman more drugs and perhaps increase libido. Although the ED drugs are not approved for women, they probably would increase the quality and duration of her erection. Testosterone is approved for women and would likely increase her libido.

The man who has vowed to love his wife, I hold him responsible for his wife’s sexual stimulation, and thus for the elevation of her libido. Most men are not doing a good enough job.

I decided not to use medical terms to discuss these subjects for various reasons. This may upset some listeners, but I doubt if any of these are older, married couples. I am going to teach you about sex and how you can improve your sex life.