
217: Why 'Know Your Needs' Is Misleading Advice in Burnout—Your Nervous System Can’t Even Feel Them Yet
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Have you ever been told to “just get clear on your needs”... and felt even more confused?
Because when your nervous system is dysregulated, even that well-meaning advice can send you on a wild goose chase.
In this episode, we explore why identifying and meeting your needs can feel exhausting—especially when you’re in fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.
You’ll learn why what feels like a need—rest, journaling, asking for something—is sometimes just an outdated survival mechanism.
✨ Inside, we’ll explore:
– How to tell the difference between your survival thoughts and your true needs
– The one self-dialogue question that unlocks the part of you trying to protect yourself
– A gentle reframe: “If I knew I was safe and loved, what would I do?”
I’ll walk you through real-life examples—like the part of me that thought I needed to initiate a difficult conversation, but what I actually needed… was to stop judging myself.
🤍 If you’ve been chasing strategies (another conversation, a perfectly worded email, a better to-do list)—this episode will help you pause, regulate, and come back to what’s real.
Start here, and meet the deeper part of you that knows exactly what it needs
Recommended next episode:211: The Real Reason You Can’t Show Up: Burnout + Nervous System Shutdown - click here
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