This is the fourth step in the Cool Change journey—a series that guides you through navigating meaningful transitions with clarity, courage, and intention.

After:

🌱 The Stirring – when something within you begins to shift

🪞 The Mirror – when you start seeing yourself more clearly

🔥 The Disruption – when old patterns break and new truths emerge…

…comes 🧭 The Design: the moment you stop drifting and begin shaping your life on purpose.

But here’s the twist: design doesn’t start with massive reinvention.

It starts with small, seemingly insignificant moments—the quiet 99% of life that most of us overlook.

In this episode, Chuck shares a pivotal story from his early 20s, when a Tony Robbins course and a bowl of instant oatmeal shifted everything. That experience launched a lifelong practice of life design, rooted not in control or planning—but in intention, iteration, and everyday joy.

You’ll learn:

• Why the key to change isn’t dramatic decisions, but subtle upgrades
• How to identify where your life has become smaller than it needs to be
• A simple “1–10” tool that can immediately increase your daily sense of meaning
• What it feels like to shift from reacting to designing
• How to choose a direction—even if you don’t know the destination

Are you stuck in a pattern you didn’t choose… but keep repeating?

Do you ever feel like your life is running on autopilot, and no matter how hard you try, you keep ending up in the same place?

That’s not a motivation problem. It’s a disruption problem.

In this episode, Chuck Allen helps you identify the unconscious beliefs that are driving your behaviors—and gives you a practical tool to begin breaking free. This is the third stage of the Cool Change Method™—where awareness turns into agency, and real change begins.

You’ll learn:

• Why behavior change doesn’t last without belief change

• How to know when you’re truly ready to disrupt a pattern

• The difference between performative change and real traction

• A simple Pattern Interrupt Practice to apply immediately

• Why your focus must be top-of-mind, not buried in a doc

You’ll also hear a story from Chuck’s time at The Home Depot that changed his leadership identity—and a deeply personal reflection on the grief and freedom that come with disrupting what no longer serves you or the people around you.

🎧 This is the moment to take the wheel of your life.

🔁 Share this episode with someone who’s ready for real change.

▶ Listen now, or catch up on the first two episodes in the series:

• Episode 77: The Stirring

• Episode 78: The Mirror

What happens when you stop coasting, stop justifying, and stop mistaking other people’s kindness for clarity? What happens when you finally pause long enough to really see yourself?

In this second installment of the Cool Change Method™ series, Chuck explores The Mirror—that uncomfortable but necessary moment when we come face-to-face with the gap between who we are and who we want to be.

Drawing from a life-altering health reckoning, years of coaching insight, and the quiet truths we often avoid, this episode invites you to slow down and reflect on the path you’re really on—not the one you hope you’re on, but the one your actions are taking you toward.

• Why good intentions aren’t enough
• The danger of mistaking momentum for alignment
• How other people’s kindness can keep you stuck
• A powerful wake-up call that came just in time
• The most important question you can ask yourself right now

• The Cool Change Method™ series (6 episodes)
• Coaching insight: The most common identity shifts people face in midlife

The mirror doesn’t judge. It just offers you a choice. And the moment you’re willing to see yourself clearly—that’s the moment everything can begin to change.