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As the year comes to a close, this episode is an invitation to pause, breathe, and shift the narrative.

Instead of ending the year replaying everything you didn’t do, we focus on what you showed up for, what you survived, and what you learned along the way. Growth doesn’t always look loud or perfect—and progress isn’t canceled out because some goals weren’t met.

We talk about:

• Why self-blame at the end of the year keeps you stuck
• How celebrating effort (not just outcomes) builds momentum
• Letting go of “should haves” without lowering your standards
• Reframing the new year as a continuation, not a reset button
• Shifting from regret to intention

This isn’t about pretending things didn’t happen.
It’s about choosing not to live there.

You don’t end the year behind—you end it experienced.
And the new year isn’t about fixing yourself; it’s about directing yourself.

Celebrate what you did.
Release what you didn’t.
And step into what will happen next.

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Coach Nesi

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In this episode, we’re getting honest — gently, but truthfully — about the habits, routines, and comfortable patterns that keep us stuck. “Settling” doesn’t always look dramatic… sometimes it’s the small choices we shrug off, the behaviors we normalize, or the goals we quietly put on the shelf.

Today, we talk about how to recognize those moments, how to stop accepting less than what we’re capable of, and how to begin real change from a place of self-love rather than self-criticism.

We’ll walk through:

• 🌱 Understanding your comfort zones and why they feel safe
• 🔍 Self-reflection practices that help reveal where you’ve been settling
• 💬 Accepting the truth — even when it stings — without shame
• 🚀 Creating space for growth by making aligned, intentional choices
• 💛 How to move forward with compassion, patience, and courage

This isn’t about calling yourself out with harsh judgment — it’s about calling yourself forward with clarity. You deserve more than the habits that drain you or the comfort that keeps you small.

Tune in, take a breath, and let’s explore how to break the cycle of settling so you can step into the version of yourself that’s been waiting.

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Changing how we eat or live sounds simple — until we try to do it.
We know what to do, we know why we should do it… But something in our mind says, “It’s not so bad.”

This episode dives deep into that mental block — the quiet voice that keeps us comfortable, stuck, and repeating the same habits we swore we’d change. Whether it’s food choices, portion control, skipping workouts, or late-night snacking, we’ll unpack why breaking old patterns feels so hard — and how to finally get past it.

You’ll learn:
💭 Why “It’s not so bad” thinking becomes our biggest barrier to progress
🧠 How comfort, stress, and identity shape our food habits
💪 Simple mindset shifts that make real, lasting change possible
🍽️ Practical steps to start eating with purpose — not guilt

This conversation is real, relatable, and designed for adults 30 to 65 who want to feel better, get stronger, and regain control — without restriction or shame.

If you’ve ever said, “I know I should, but…” — this episode is your starting point.

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