Many of us interpret this silence as an indication that something is wrong; we’re boring, they’re boring, someone’s uncomfortable, there’s nothing else to talk about, etc. But the reality is that silence can not only be pleasurable, but also a useful tool when making conversation with people, especially ones you don’t know very well. So in this episode, I’m gonna teach you to think about and use silence in a more productive way so you can have better conversations with anyone you meet.

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Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

1:27 How to handle awkward silence

17:44 Why is silence so shameful?

21:14 See silence in a new light

26:34 Use silence to your advantage

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Introverts hate it… extroverts need it… and so many of us don’t know how to do it properly. So in this episode, I’m going to share a simple technique for making small talk, and the mindset you need in order to apply this technique correctly.

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Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

0:41 How to make (better) small talk

1:54 The problem

3:14 The solution

4:08 Asking open-ended questions

11:00 Reflecting and adding

17:23 Why this technique works

19:05 Common mistakes to avoid

21:57 How to start practicing

23:54 A personal anecdote

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One of my listeners recently asked me about the steps I took to get better at talking to people in real life. This episode is the response to that question.

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Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

2:19 Stop socializing with people you don’t like or respect

6:30 Stop trying to be perceived in a particular way

10:31 Stop expecting a particular outcome

14:21 Stop overthinking

19:59 Stop taking rejection personally

25:10 Approaching people you’re afraid of

28:23 Put yourself in situations where you have to be social

32:59 Study the art of conversation

34:22 Learn from the best

40:57 Focus more on them and less on yourself

44:04 Embrace the feeling of being misunderstood and disliked

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