What really goes on in the mind of an avoidant when you don't chase them after a break up? Do they start to miss you or do they just move on without looking back? Dating expert Lucia reveals the truth about how avoidants react to the no contact rule.

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What happens when your avoidant ex finally cracks? Will they reach out? Will they come running back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares exactly what happens when an avoidant cracks under pressure.

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What happens when your ex thinks you've moved on and don't care anymore? This is a crucial moment that will change their attitude towards you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the shocking outcome of having your ex think you've stopped caring.

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You've been in no contact, haven't reached out to your ex and yet you still haven't heard from them. Does that mean no contact failed? Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 2 actions you can take to get your ex to reach out.

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Is your breakup permanent or is it just a temporary detour on the path to forever? Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 8 signs you and your ex may get back together.


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By refusing to engage in your ex's breadcrumbs, you show self respect, deny your ex validation and force them to confront their true intentions. Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down why ignoring insignificant messages is a silent power move that puts you back in control.

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There are 2 parts to getting an ex back - no contact and after no contact. If you mess up once you're back in touch with your ex, you'll lower your chances of getting them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what you need to do once you hear from your ex.

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If your ex is an avoidant, there's a good chance you're anxious. If you let your anxiety take over when you're trying to get your ex back, your chances of success are very low. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you absolutely must do if you want your avoidant ex back.

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