When an avoidant wants to come back, they'll first test you - quietly, strategically and emotionally.Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 3 tests they'll give you and how to pass every one with flying colors.

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You can't force an avoidant to apologize for hurting you, but you can understand what makes them feel safe enough to do it.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains exactly what you need to do to get your avoidant to apologize.

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Dismissive avoidants & fearful avoidants don't have the same reaction to no contact. Understanding the difference will make radio silence less scary.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how the 2 attachment styles behave during no contact.

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Blocking an avoidant ex sets off a chain of psychological stages that most people don't expect.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down the 4 things that happen when you block an avoidant dumper.

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If your ex said they're done, don't panic. Once the silence kicks in and they start to feel the consequences of the breakup, they'll begin to question their decision.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why breakups aren't always final and you still have a chance to get your ex back.

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No contact isn't enough to get an avoidant ex back. There's something even more powerful that overrides attachment style.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the secret factor that determines whether your avoidant ex comes back or stays gone.

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Your avoidant ex needs emotional space - 3 feet of it. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 3 Foot Rule that makes avoidants feel safe, stops the chasing game and actually draws them back to you.

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Why do avoidants come back after no contact? Most people assume it’s because they miss you or realize your value—but the truth runs much deeper.

In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the Black Hole Effect: the powerful psychological pull that happens when you stop chasing and give an avoidant the space they need. You’ll learn why avoidants don’t miss you while you’re still reaching out, the stages they go through after a breakup, and the two main reasons they eventually return—even if it takes longer than you’d like.

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