Episódios

  • Stop “Shoulding” All Over Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

    Stop “Shoulding” All Over Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
    Aug 12 2025
    Do you have a voice in your head telling you what you should and shouldn’t do? Why does this “tyranny of should” drain our aliveness, passion, and connection? And how might your life change if you weren’t afraid to be who you truly are? Today, Alyson and I talk about how we all “should” on ourselves and each other. We explore how this can leave us feeling trapped and emotionally constipated—and what life can feel like when we loosen our grip on control. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/08/shoulding-all-over-yourself COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
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    46 minutos
  • When Your Partner Feels Like an Adversary: Ditch the Bickering and Disrespect — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

    When Your Partner Feels Like an Adversary: Ditch the Bickering and Disrespect — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
    Jul 30 2025
    Do you treat the pizza delivery guy with more kindness than your partner? Do you frequently bicker or cut each other down with biting humor? And how is this disrespectful behavior killing your aliveness, connection, and sexual spontaneity? Today Alyson and I discuss the all too common problem of disrespect, resentment, and contempt in relationships. We explore how we can ditch the sniping and bickering and instead learn how to keep things clean, have each other’s back, and handle disagreements with respect. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/bickering-disrespect COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
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    46 minutos
  • Drama Triangle: Getting out of the Blame Game — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

    Drama Triangle: Getting out of the Blame Game — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
    Jul 16 2025
    Do you feel like you keep getting stuck in the same old arguments? What drains our aliveness more than work? And what if the thing killing your sex life had nothing to do with sex? Today Alyson and I reveal one of — if not the — biggest killers of aliveness, intimacy, and trust. It’s the drama triangle. We explore what it truly is, how it keeps us from finding solutions, and what you can do to pull yourself from its trap. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/drama-triangle COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
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    52 minutos
  • Feeling Stuck and Uncertain: Moving from Anxiety to Clarity — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

    Feeling Stuck and Uncertain: Moving from Anxiety to Clarity — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
    Jul 1 2025
    Do you ever feel stuck about what to do with your life, relationship, or career? What’s really going on when we say, “I don’t know what to do”? And how do we move forward without a clear vision or plan? Today, Alyson and I discuss feeling stuck and uncertain about what to do next. We explore what fuels anxiety, why comfort is different than peace, as well as some ways we can move from uncertainty into clarity. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/stuck-and-uncertain COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
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    44 minutos
  • Is It Healthy to Use AI for Therapy? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

    Is It Healthy to Use AI for Therapy? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
    Jun 17 2025
    Do you talk to AI like it’s your therapist? Is it wrong to prefer interactions with a machine over a human? And how is our pursuit of comfort killing our sense of confidence and meaning? Today, Alyson and I discuss the rise of AI as a substitute for friendships and emotional support. We explore why people are forming real bonds with artificial companions, how these tools can actually help, and what we risk when we forget the value of real connection. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/ai-therapy-connection COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
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    38 minutos
  • Why We’re Attracted to the Wrong People (and What to Do About It) — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

    Why We’re Attracted to the Wrong People (and What to Do About It) — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
    Jun 3 2025
    Why do some guys crave women who aren’t good for them? Is the “nice girl” always boring — and the “bad girl” more fun? And do we really need to put on an act just to make a relationship work? Today, Alyson and I talk about something a lot of people wrestle with — feeling torn between who we’re attracted to and who’s actually a better fit. We explore why we often contort ourselves to be accepted, how that shapes attraction, and what to do if feel like you have to choose between chemistry and connection. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/attraction-vs-connection COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
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    51 minutos
  • How to Have Deeper Conversations — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

    How to Have Deeper Conversations — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
    May 21 2025
    Do you get drained by small talk? Does it feel like no one else likes to talk about the things you love? And how can you have deeper conversations even if you don’t see eye to eye? Today Alyson and I discuss some ways to have deeper and more meaningful conversations — even when interests don’t align. Whether you’re chatting with strangers or deepening bonds in a long-term relationship, we share a few key ideas that’ll help you get out of the shallow end of the pool. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/05/deeper-conversations COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
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    55 minutos
  • Should You Settle in Your Relationship? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

    Should You Settle in Your Relationship? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
    May 6 2025
    Should you settle in your relationship? Do you ever wonder if there’s someone out there who’s a better fit? And could raising the bar too high leave you alone forever? Today, Alyson and I dig into the idea of “settling” in relationships. We talk about what it really means to raise your standards, how we sabotage relationships, and why it’s tempting to focus on someone else’s flaws instead of facing our own fears. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/05/settle-in-relationship COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
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    45 minutos