What makes one psychologically ready for a committed relationship?

Jung’s essay, “The Love Problem of a Student”, discusses the early stages social dynamics that have become common to us 100 years later— “free love” vs monogamy, infidelity, a woman’s dilemma of career vs. family.

00:37 The Love Problem of a Student

03:41 Love and Instincts

06:23 Homosexuality and Human Nature

29:24 Psychological Maturity and Relationships

33:00 Psychological Impact of Early Sexual Experiences

44:50 Older Women and Younger Men Dynamics

56:05 The Concept of Free Love

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A recent epiphany has made me decide to move off visual media consolidate my podcast with substack.

It shouldn't change anything for you, though there's a *possibility* you won't see my new episodes pop up. (If there's an RSS feed issue.)

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Here I read an essay by Carl Jung, "Woman As Soul", + give my commentary on what it means and how we can use it.

This is part of the source material for my next book, ANIMA: The Five Aspects of the Feminine-- A Guide For Men on Female Psychology.

Get free excerpts by subcribing at ruwando.substack.com

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Reality is a set of agreements.

This is a reading + commentary on a new post on substack on the nature of subjective reality: The process of brainwashing used by ideologies as seen in politics, communities, and of course, cults.

It includes from excerpts from my book, ORGSM, A Memoir.

I'll be posting more analyses + excerpts from my next book, ANIMA: The 5 Aspects of the Feminine Unconscious on substack:

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My book publishes Oct 31. You can get it at a discount + free bonuses:

1. How To Brainwash Yourself course that pulls mind control principles from my cult experience for positive identity transformation.

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ORGSM, A Memoir is my true story of being in a female-led cult where I learned deep truths about f***ing and mindf***ing.

It's already the #1 New Release in the Psych/Human Sxuality, Memoirs/Deceptions, and Cults categories; & already top 5 bestseller.

I connected with Sascha over a post he made of “why women in their 40’s are the unhappiest ever.” Whether that’s true or not, it’s food for important conversation about modern dating and relationships.

Sascha Haert is a coach for women. Tbh, I used to have a lot of judgement of men who coach women (and of women who only coach men). But he has a lot of great insight on: Why successful women hardly find love, what’s important in the bedroom, why women resent men so much these days, how woman makes space for a man in life, what kind of woman do men want in a relationships, and exploring: do women understand the power they hold?

We’re two men commenting on the plight of women, so take it with some salt. However, Sascha has a lot of knowledge from the many women he’s helped.

00:00 Women in their 40s are the unhappiest ever

02:13 Getting lost trying to become a masculine woman

06:51 How to be a good father to a daughter

07:59 Woman making space for a man in life

12:07 Why women resent men so much

15:03 Be yourself in order to be liked

19:02 How Sascha became a coach for women

29:00 Fathers shape daughters’ relation to relationship

31:00 Sexual liberation of women

33:35 Open relationships yes or no

46:26 Sascha’s work

48:50 There’s too much competition between sexes

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Working with horses is the most profound thing I've done in many years. Most recently I've been training with Sergio Faerman.

Sergio is a former semi-pro MMA fighter, horse therapy trainer, and “gaucho” (Latin American tradition of cowboy). He and I first met training MMA, and I’ve been training in horse riding with him.We discuss why men need to learn horseriding, how horses teach you to be a healthy leader (horses teach you how to be balanced in dominance and empathy), what therapy with horses looks like, how horses can show you your trauma, and more.Connect with Sergio on IG (English or Spanish) https://www.instagram.com/sergiofaerman/We MAY run a retreat together next year with horses. If you’re interested, shoot me a message.00:00 Intro05:15 Horses can talk09:27 The story about natives11:45 Horses teach you how to be a healthy leader24:40 The connection between horses and girls36:00 Horses show you your traumas42:08 Electromagnetic field carries information45:40 Finding your life purpose is everything48:52 Truly connecting with creation52:00 Do horses have alpha males in herd?56:00 Testosterone can be dangerous01:01:01 Sergio’s work with horses

Justin Nault is a nutrition therapist. We have a fascinating discussion on metabolic health, hormones, nutrition, and the mind.Justin on IG: @justinnaultofficialHis supplement company: iamclovis.com00:00 Guest Introduction: Who Is Justin?00:56 Justin's Music Career and Body Dysmorphia01:33 Journey Into Health and Wellness04:10 Plant Medicine and Life Changes04:46 Nutrition and the Paleo Diet05:42 Savannah's Story and the Birth of a New Mission08:55 The Problem with Seed Oils12:32 Understanding Human Metabolism19:28 Training Methodologies and Health24:48 Cultural and Psychological Aspects of Health27:45 The Harmful Goggins Mentality28:49 Small Wins and Building Momentum29:48 Critique of Plant Medicine and Avoidance Pattern31:22 Personal Journey and Recovery Insights32:43 Nutrition and Recovery Tips35:04 Balancing Self-Love and Ambition37:38 The Importance of Individualized Advice41:48 Good vs. Evil and Integrating the Shadow49:08 The Complexity of Critical Thinking50:24 Connecting and Offering Guidance