In this episode I dive into the often-misunderstood process of forgiveness and letting go—what it truly takes, why it’s so elusive, and how to move beyond pain without abandoning yourself. I break down the traps that keep us stuck in resentment, the difference between oversharing and authentic vulnerability, and how grief and anger can become catalysts for growth rather than prisons of suffering. Through powerful insights, stories, and timeless wisdom, I explore how to transform wounds into wisdom, create closure without waiting for it, and trust that nothing meant for you will ever require you to betray who you are.

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In this episode I dive into the truth about authenticity—what it really means, why it’s so often compromised, and how the pull between belonging and self-expression shapes our lives. I unpack the ways codependency and people-pleasing keep us wearing masks, the cultural and relational pressures that silence our voices, and the cost of abandoning ourselves for acceptance. Through stories, research, and practical insights, I invite you to explore where you’ve been prioritizing connection over truth, and how to begin reintroducing yourself to the world with courage, boundaries, and authenticity that’s rooted in choice, not fear.

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In this episode, Mark sits down with author and thought leader Bethany Webster for a powerful deep dive into the “mother wound” and how it unconsciously shapes our sense of self, relationships, and capacity to thrive. Bethany breaks down the four levels of the mother wound, how family dynamics and cultural conditioning intertwine, and why so many of us carry invisible patterns of self-abandonment, guilt, or people-pleasing. Through her own story and years of teaching, she reveals how confronting and healing these wounds can liberate us from inherited beliefs, create healthier boundaries, and unlock greater authenticity in love, work, and life. This is an eye-opening conversation on breaking cycles, reclaiming sovereignty, and learning to mother ourselves with compassion and truth.

Bethany Webster is considered a global expert on healing the Mother Wound. She is a writer, international speaker and transformational coach. Bethany started blogging in 2013 about the Mother Wound and quickly experienced worldwide demand for her work. Through blending research on intergenerational trauma, feminist theory, and psychology with her own personal story, Bethany's work is the result of decades of research and her own journey of healing. Bethany speaks, consults and mentors around the world sharing her growing body of work that is raising the standard of women’s leadership and personal development.

Links:

• Website: www.bethanywebster.com
• Book: Discovering the Inner Mother: A Guide to Healing the Mother Wound and Claiming your Personal Power
• Online course: https://www.bethanywebster.com/healing-mother-wound-course/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themotherwound/
• Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/healingthemotherwound
• Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/innermother

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In this episode I pull back the curtain on our relationship with technology and reveal how platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and even YouTube are reshaping our nervous systems, stealing our choices, and silently eroding the depth of our relationships. I break down the psychology of manipulation baked into algorithms, how dependency mirrors toxic relationship dynamics, and why our phones have become the most powerful—and most destructive—relationship in our lives. This isn’t just a critique of social media; it’s a wake-up call to reclaim your sovereignty, restore choice, and consciously design a healthier relationship with technology so you can fully show up for yourself, your purpose, and the people you love

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In this episode, Mark welcomes back psychotherapist and author Hilary Jacobs Hendel for a profound conversation on emotions, parenting, and breaking cycles of suppression. Together, they explore Hilary’s groundbreaking “Change Triangle” tool and her new book Parents Have Feelings Too, which equips parents to better understand their own emotions so they can support their children’s. Hilary explains why emotions are not “good” or “bad” but vital information, how unprocessed feelings fuel anxiety, depression, and addictions, and why modeling emotional fluency is the most powerful gift parents can offer. Through stories, practical tools, and raw insights, this episode unpacks how embracing emotions—rather than burying them—can transform parenting, heal intergenerational trauma, and create deeper, healthier connections at home and beyond

Hilary Jacobs Hendel, LCSW has a passion for teaching people how to understand and process emotions for healing. She is the author of the international award-winning book, “It’s Not Always Depression: Working the Change Triangle to Listen to the Body, Discover Core Emotions, and Connect to Your Authentic Self” and “Parents Have Feelings, Too” . She is a certified psychoanalyst and AEDP psychotherapist and supervisor.. You can find free resources plus classes and curricula on emotions and the Change Triangle at hilaryjacobshendel.com.

• Website: hilaryjacobshendel.com
• New Book: Parents Have Feelings, Too: A Guide to Navigating Your Emotions So You And Your Family Can Thrive
• It's Not Always Depression: Working the Change Triangle to Listen to the Body, Discover Core Emotions, and Connect to Your Authentic Self

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In this episode I break down the three biggest mistakes people make when navigating a breakup—and how to avoid them so you don’t repeat the same painful patterns. I share why leaving the door open keeps you stuck, how failing to prioritize your healing sabotages your self-worth, and why allowing others to dictate the terms of connection robs you of the love you actually want. This conversation is a wake-up call to stop self-abandoning, reclaim your power, and walk through the breakup as the portal of transformation it truly is.

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Here's the link to the episode on co-parenting and boundaries with Dr. Alexandra Solomon:

https://markgroves.com/episode/dr-alexandra-solomon-boundaries-boundaries-boundaries/

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In this episode I dive deep into the messy, beautiful reality of being human—our wounds, our patterns, and the radical responsibility it takes to break free from them. I share candid reflections on my own past mistakes, the lessons my father taught me about curiosity over shame, and how unresolved pain shapes the way we love, live, and even scroll. From betrayal and self-abandonment to the distractions of technology and the power of true presence, this conversation is a call to reclaim your sovereignty, rewrite your story, and create relationships and communities rooted in integrity and compassion. This is not just about listening—it’s about seeing yourself, healing, and stepping into a more powerful way of being.

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—Learn the connection between Attachment Styles, how it affects the Nervous System, AND how you can heal it: .https://go.markgroves.com/nervous-system-opt-in-podcast

—Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/community

—Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://markgroves.com/book

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In this episode, Mark sits down with thought leader and entrepreneur Kaylor Betts for a raw and liberating conversation about fear, authenticity, and the courage to live boldly. Together, they unpack how facing our deepest fears—whether in relationships, business, or self-expression—can actually become the gateway to freedom, healing, and purpose. Kaylor shares his own story of stepping into truth during the chaos of the pandemic, the backlash and breakthroughs that followed, and how embracing discomfort became the foundation of his thriving business and mission. This is a powerful dialogue on breaking free from self-abandonment, navigating criticism with integrity, and learning to build a life and business rooted in authenticity and resilience—you won’t want to miss it.

Kaylor Betts is a powerhouse life and business coach, no-BS truth-teller, and host of the top 1% podcast Awake & Winning. Once burdened by fatigue, illness, financial struggle, and systems designed to keep people small, he broke free, rebuilt his body and mind, and built a thriving business on his own terms. Today, he leads a movement that challenges the status quo, urging people to think critically, take radical responsibility, and reclaim their sovereignty. Through raw coaching, unfiltered conversations, and real-world strategies, Kaylor equips others to break free from limitations and build lives where they win in body, mind, home, and business—living unapologetically, ungovernably, and on their own terms.

Links:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekaylorbetts/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thekaylorbetts

The LIFE AW-cademy:https://theawlife.com/

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Website: https://www.awakeandwinning.com

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