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 Life after death can seem impossible, overwhelming, and just sad. We get it. Only people who have experienced this kind of loss can truly understand. We share our experiences, show you what grief looks like a year from now, or 2 or 6...even 10 for not only you but your family. Every Widow Thing will remind you that you are stronger than you think and that this grief does get less deep, less dark, and less often. Come join our widows' circle where trauma meets humor and we can encourage you to not only survive but thrive!Every Widow Thing Desenvolvimento Pessoal
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  • Episode 54: Love, Loss, and Legacy: A Conversation with Jeff on Coping with Cancer

    Episode 54: Love, Loss, and Legacy: A Conversation with Jeff on Coping with Cancer
    Oct 3 2025

    In this episode of "Every Widow Thinks," we had the privilege of speaking with Jeff, a widower from Austin, who shared his deeply personal journey following the loss of his wife, Mona, in 2019. Jeff opened up about their love story, which began with a blind date in Seattle, and how they built a life together in Austin, raising their daughter, Julia.

    Mona's battle with a rare cancer, liposarcoma, lasted nearly nine years, during which Jeff and Mona navigated the complexities of treatment while striving to maintain a sense of normalcy for their young daughter.

    Resources:

    https://flatwater.org

    https://wondersandworries.org

    https://www.hospiceaustin.org/our-services/christopher-house/

    00:00:00 - Introduction to Jeff and His Story
    00:01:00 - Meeting Mona: A Blind Date in Seattle
    00:02:40 - Moving to Austin and Starting a Family
    00:04:20 - Mona's Cancer Diagnosis: Liposarcoma
    00:05:50 - The Journey of Treatment and Family Support
    00:07:30 - Living with Cancer: A New Normal
    00:08:50 - Mona's Determination to Maintain Normalcy
    00:10:20 - Navigating the Medical Community as Physicians
    00:12:00 - Traveling and Creating Memories Together
    00:14:10 - The Shift in Health: Rapid Progression
    00:16:00 - Emergency Surgery and Hospital Stays
    00:18:15 - Transitioning to Hospice Care
    00:19:40 - Final Days at the Christopher House
    00:21:00 - Talking to Julia About Cancer and Loss
    00:22:30 - Julia's Coping Mechanisms and Support
    00:25:00 - Reflections on Grief and Milestones
    00:27:10 - Adjusting to Life After Loss
    00:28:40 - Therapy and Support Resources
    00:30:30 - Planning for the Future: Wills and Wishes
    00:32:00 - Mona's Legacy: Letters and Memories
    00:34:00 - Navigating Dating After Loss
    00:36:00 - Julia's Growth and Challenges
    00:46:00 - Conclusion and Reflections on Parenting
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    47 minutos
  • Episode 53: From Heartbreak to Healing: Understanding Suicide and Self-Compassion

    Episode 53: From Heartbreak to Healing: Understanding Suicide and Self-Compassion
    Sep 26 2025
    In this episode of Every Widow Thing, we welcome Suzanne, a dear friend of Holly's, who shares her deeply personal journey of loss and healing after the suicide of her ex-husband, Michael. Suzanne reflects on their 11-year marriage, the struggles he faced with alcoholism and depression, and the impact of his tragic death on their children.Join us as we discuss the complexities of grief, the importance of self-compassion, and the healing modalities that helped Suzanne navigate her trauma, including acupuncture, compassion classes, and even a psilocybin journey. We also touched on the loss of her beloved dog, Mojo, and the beautiful way she honored his memory. Suzanne's story is a testament to resilience and the power of self-compassion in the face of unimaginable loss.00:00:00 - Introduction and Guest IntroductionWelcome back to the podcast; introduction of Suzanne, the guest who lost her ex-husband to suicide.00:01:00 - Memories of San FranciscoSuzanne shares her memories of meeting Holly in San Francisco and their friendship.00:02:00 - Michael's StrugglesDiscussion about Suzanne's ex-husband, Michael, his struggles with alcoholism and depression, and the impact of COVID.00:03:00 - The Tragic DiscoverySuzanne recounts the traumatic experience of discovering Michael after his suicide.00:05:00 - Relationship DynamicsExploration of the relationship between Suzanne and Michael post-divorce, including co-parenting challenges.00:06:00 - Notifying the ChildrenSuzanne describes the painful process of informing her children about their father's death.00:08:00 - The Kids' ReactionsDiscussion on how Suzanne's children reacted to the news and the immediate aftermath.00:09:00 - Grief and ShockSuzanne reflects on her feelings of shock and helplessness after Michael's death.00:10:00 - Understanding SuicideDiscussion on the misconceptions surrounding suicide and the importance of understanding it as a disease.00:12:00 - The NoteSuzanne talks about the note left by Michael and its impact on her grief.00:14:00 - Children's Involvement in GriefHow Suzanne's children took charge of planning their father's memorial service.00:15:00 - Self-Care and HealingSuzanne shares her journey of self-care and healing after Michael's death.00:18:00 - Exploring Different ModalitiesDiscussion on various healing practices Suzanne engaged in, including Reiki and acupuncture.00:20:00 - Compassion ClassSuzanne describes her experience in a compassion class and its significance in her healing journey.00:22:00 - Psilocybin JourneySuzanne explains her psilocybin journey and its effects on her healing process.00:25:00 - Finding Joy After GriefSuzanne reflects on how her experiences have led to a greater appreciation for life.00:27:00 - Advice for Those in GriefSuzanne offers advice for individuals currently experiencing grief.00:30:00 - The Importance of Self-CompassionDiscussion on the necessity of self-compassion during difficult times.00:32:00 - Body Language and EnergyExploration of how body language can affect emotional energy and mindset.00:34:00 - Mojo's StorySuzanne shares the story of her beloved dog, Mojo, and the impact of his passing.00:39:00 - Healing Rituals for MojoDetails about the rituals Suzanne performed to honor Mojo after his death.00:42:00 - The Book of AwakeningSuzanne discusses a book that has been meaningful to her during her healing journey.00:44:00 - Conclusion and ResourcesWrap-up of the episode, including resources for compassion and healing.resources mentioned the episode: Into the Magic Shop- James DotyThe Book of Awakening - Mark NepoCompassion Class
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    48 minutos
  • Episode 52: Reunion Day: Celebrating Love and Loss with Deb Pilcher

    Episode 52: Reunion Day: Celebrating Love and Loss with Deb Pilcher
    Sep 19 2025

    Deb Pilcher's grief journey began years before her husband's death, with the stillbirth of their first daughter, Anna.

    In a surprising twist, that first devastating loss was the catalyst for healing and hope when her husband, Wally, was killed in a driving accident that left her oldest son in critical condition. Deb was given an image that to this day allows her to reframe her grief and feel joy in spite of her devastating losses.

    Deb's story—marked by child loss, widowhood, two battles with cancer, and a new marriage—is shared here to bring hope to others who are grieving.

    Hope is a superpower!


    00:00:00 - Introduction and Guest Introduction
    Whitney introduces Holly and Deb, sharing the significance of Deb's support during her early widowhood.

    00:01:30 - Deb's Grief Journey Begins
    Deb recounts the beginning of her grief journey with the stillbirth of her first daughter and the subsequent loss of her husband, Wally.

    00:02:50 - The Impact of Wally's Death
    Deb shares the details of Wally's tragic death in a car accident and the immediate aftermath for her and their children.

    00:05:00 - Jacob's Survival and Trauma
    Discussion about Jacob's injuries from the accident and the challenges of communicating the news of Wally's death to him.

    00:08:00 - The Role of Friends and Family
    Deb reflects on the support she received from friends and family during the crisis and the importance of community.

    00:10:30 - Navigating Grief and Denial
    Deb discusses her initial denial of Wally's death and her focus on Jacob's recovery.

    00:12:30 - The Long Road of Grief
    Deb explains how she coped with her grief over the years, focusing on her children and gradually processing her loss.

    00:15:00 - Finding Joy Amidst Grief
    Deb shares how she reframed her grief and found moments of joy, including the concept of "reunion day."

    00:20:00 - The Challenge of Moving Forward
    Discussion on the fear of moving on from grief and the struggle to let go of memories.

    00:23:00 - Humor in Grief
    Deb and Whitney talk about the importance of humor in coping with grief and share funny anecdotes.

    00:27:00 - Dating After Loss
    Deb discusses her journey to dating again after Wally's death and the challenges she faced.

    00:30:00 - Meeting Clay
    Deb shares the story of how she met her current husband, Clay, through her friends.

    00:35:00 - The Wedding and Family Dynamics
    Deb describes her wedding to Clay and how her children have adjusted to the new family dynamics.

    00:40:00 - Balancing Memories of the Past
    Deb talks about the importance of acknowledging Wally's flaws while celebrating his memory and ensuring her children understand that no one is perfect.
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