For years I believed burnout meant I was doing something wrong — not resilient enough, not organised enough, not disciplined enough. By 2018 I’d already survived a violent relationship, the suicide of an ex-partner, losing my hair to an autoimmune condition, a cPTSD diagnosis, and working myself into the ground running a nonprofit in Colombia.

From the outside, I looked capable and committed.

Inside, I was collapsing for days after every big effort.

I kept changing roles — yoga therapist, somatic trauma practitioner, relationship coach, Ayurvedic wellness coach — thinking, “Maybe the next job will finally feel better.”

But under all of it was the same pattern: a nervous system stuck in overfunctioning, constantly scanning for threat and trying to earn rest.

In this episode, I talk about:

• What overfunctioning actually feels like in the body
• How ISO 45003 describes the point where performance and emotional regulation start to fray
• The turning point in late 2022, when I realised I couldn’t hack or hustle my way into safety
• What changed when I began rebuilding from the inside out — my sleep, energy, creativity, and relationship with work

This isn’t just about me. It’s about how every time one person learns to work with their nervous system, it ripples into their team, workplace, and family.

If you’re exhausted, over-responsible, or quietly wondering why you “should be coping better,” I made this episode for you. 💛

Access the full report here: https://sheridanruth.com/what-if-youre-not-the-problem/

This 5-week program helps thoughtful, sensitive, or neurodivergent professionals understand how their brain and body actually work — so they can rebuild focus, energy, and calm at work without pushing through.

If you love your work but end the day drained, forgetful, or tense — this is for you.

It’s not therapy or time-management hacks. It’s practical, body-informed psychology that helps you redesign the way you work so your system supports you instead of fighting you.

You’ll learn to:

✨ Read your energy in real time and prevent create-and-crash cycles

✨ Recover faster after stress

✨ Set boundaries that hold

✨ Redesign your workflow to fit your brain

✨ End the day steady, not spent

How it works:

• Short 30-min lesson on Monday
• Guided body practice on Wednesday
• 5-min reflection on Thursday
• Optional live call on Friday
• → About 1.5–2.5 hours per week, at your own pace.

Join the pilot: Click here to apply or express interest.

“I’m ready for something else... but I don’t know what that is.”

If that’s you — start with a 90-minute Somatic Clarity Intensive. We’ll find your next step, the one your body can actually follow through on.

Or if you’re tired of circling between “almost-ready” and “total doubt,” the 6-month journey helps you rebuild energy, boundaries, and clarity — so you stop second-guessing and start leading from your center.

🤍 Explore coaching here

7 real stories of people who stopped trying to “fix themselves” and found steadiness in unexpected ways.

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Connection is my love...

Why a good night's sleep or a holiday may not always reset you properly, introducing the concept of allostatic load—the invisible wear and tear from chronic stress. We explain the body's traffic light system with green, yellow, red, and blue states to illustrate different levels of nervous system activation and how they affect your ability to recover. Learn the importance of distinguishing between challenges and threats to manage burnout and maintain clarity at work. Special attention is given to sensitive, neurodivergent, or trauma-aware nervous systems.

The episode provides steps to:

- Map your personal nervous system states and eliminate energy leaks.

- Know your safety cues and redesign daily transitions.

- Effectively pace your ambition and end your day on a green note.

00:00 Introduction to Allostatic Load

00:28 Understanding the Nervous System Traffic Light

00:52 Exploring the Four Nervous System States

02:11 The Concept of Allostatic Load

03:20 Impact of Allostatic Load on Daily Life

05:27 Managing Stress and Achieving Balance

08:17 Practical Steps for Nervous System Regulation

12:32 Conclusion and Additional Resources

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40: How The Sympathetic Nervous System (Fight) Response Sabotages Financial Freedom

Further Reading

McEwen, B. S., & Stellar, E. (1993). Stress and the individual. Archives of Internal Medicine.

McEwen, B. S. (1998). Protective and damaging effects of stress mediators. NEJM.

Access the full report here: https://sheridanruth.com/what-if-youre-not-the-problem/

This 5-week program helps thoughtful, sensitive, or neurodivergent professionals understand how their brain and body actually work — so they can rebuild focus, energy, and calm at work without pushing through.

If you love your work but end the day drained, forgetful, or tense — this is for you.

It’s not therapy or time-management hacks. It’s practical, body-informed psychology that helps you redesign the way you work so your system supports you instead of fighting you.

You’ll learn to:

✨ Read your energy in real time and prevent create-and-crash cycles

✨ Recover faster after stress

✨ Set boundaries that hold

✨ Redesign your workflow to fit your brain

✨ End the day steady, not spent

How it works:

• Short 30-min lesson on Monday
• Guided body practice on Wednesday
• 5-min reflection on Thursday
• Optional live call on Friday
• → About 1.5–2.5 hours per week, at your own pace.

Join the pilot: Click here to apply or express interest.

“I’m ready for something else... but I don’t know what that is.”

If that’s you

With late-diagnosed adhd (and a lot of history with structure, authority, and power) my relationship with discipline has completely changed.

Instead of forcing myself into strict routines, I’ve been practicing discipline as devotion and rhythm. When you trace the word back, discipline shares roots with disciple—to be devoted. In this podcast episode I’m inviting you to notice what truly nourishes you, and practice the devotion to meet it consistently.

Predictable, gentle rhythms regulate the nervous system. They lower stress, soften cortisol spikes, and make emotional ups and downs easier to ride. For those of us with trauma in the mix, rhythm builds safety and self-trust. Over time, consistent devotional habits help your system trust you—and bring your power back.

In this episode, we explore:

• Rhythm over rigidity—what that looks like day to day
• How devotion creates safety for a sensitive system
• Small, steady practices that rebuild self-trust

Access the full report here: https://sheridanruth.com/what-if-youre-not-the-problem/

This 5-week program helps thoughtful, sensitive, or neurodivergent professionals understand how their brain and body actually work — so they can rebuild focus, energy, and calm at work without pushing through.

If you love your work but end the day drained, forgetful, or tense — this is for you.

It’s not therapy or time-management hacks. It’s practical, body-informed psychology that helps you redesign the way you work so your system supports you instead of fighting you.

You’ll learn to:

✨ Read your energy in real time and prevent create-and-crash cycles

✨ Recover faster after stress

✨ Set boundaries that hold

✨ Redesign your workflow to fit your brain

✨ End the day steady, not spent

How it works:

• Short 30-min lesson on Monday
• Guided body practice on Wednesday
• 5-min reflection on Thursday
• Optional live call on Friday
• → About 1.5–2.5 hours per week, at your own pace.

Join the pilot: Click here to apply or express interest.

“I’m ready for something else... but I don’t know what that is.”

If that’s you — start with a 90-minute Somatic Clarity Intensive. We’ll find your next step, the one your body can actually follow through on.

Or if you’re tired of circling between “almost-ready” and “total doubt,” the 6-month journey helps you rebuild energy, boundaries, and clarity — so you stop second-guessing and start leading from your center.

🤍 Explore coaching here

7 real stories of people who stopped trying to “fix themselves” and found steadiness in unexpected ways.

click here

Connection is my love language! Let me know you exist and are listening along by sending me a ✨ on Instagram @_sheridanruth_ or LinkedIn

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